Monday, April 25, 2011

10 Steps to Draw Closer to Allah



It should be the desire of every Muslim to draw nearer and closer to Almighty Allah the most compassionate and the most merciful.The following are 10 steps for us to draw closer to our Almighty Allah:

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7. Having fear and hope in Allah


Indeed, no one despairs of relief from Allah except the disbelieving people. (Surah Yusuf 12:87)

One must be hopeful of Allahs mercy and forgiveness and fearful of His punishment. It is this fear that should lead one to seek Allahs forgiveness with hope. Allah says:

Know that Allah is severe in punishment and that Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (Surat al-Maaidah 5:98)

In the above verse, Allah gives us reason to fear because His punishment is justly severe, as well as good reason to have hope, since He is the Most Forgiving and Merciful. There should be a balance between fear and hope and not too much or too less of one or the other.

We should always remain between fear and hope. For, the right and the approved kind of fear is that which acts as a barrier between the slave and the things forbidden by Allah. But, if fear is excessive, then the possibility is that the man will fall into despair and pessimism.

On the other hand the approved state of optimism is of a man who does good in the light of the Shari’ah and is hopeful of being rewarded for it. Or, conversely, if a man committed a sin, he repents sincerely, and is hopeful of being forgiven. Allah (swt) said:

“Verily, those who believed, and those who migrated and fought in the way of Allah, it is they who are hopeful of Allah’s mercy. And Allah is very Forgiving, very Merciful.” (Al-Baqarah, 218)

In contrast, if a man indulges in sins and excesses, but is hopeful that he would be forgiven without doing anything good, then, this is self-deception, mere illusion and false hope. Abu ‘All Rowzbari has said, “Fear and hope are like the two wings of a bird. If they are well balanced, the flight will be well balanced. But, If one is stunted, the Right would also be stunted. And, to be sure, if the two are lost, the bird will soon be in the throes of death.” Allah has praised the people of hope and fear in the following verse:

‘Is one who worships devotedly during the night, prostrating himself or standing, fearing the Hereafter, and hoping for the mercy of his Lord (is equal to him who doesn’t do these things)?’ (Al Zumar, 9)

Hope then also demands fear. If that was not the case, one would be in a state of false security. Conversely, fear demands hope. Without that it would be despair.

Fear and hope, both should be equally proportioned in our hearts, in our worship, and in our dua to Allah. Allah says:

Call out to Him with fear and hope. (Surat al-Araaf 7:56)

They forsake their beds to call their Lord in fear and hope. (Surat as-Sajdah 32:16)

8. Voluntary fasting for the pleasure of Allah

Fasting in general and voluntary fasting in particular is a great worship. Fasting is not restricted to Ramadhan, but it is an act of worship that can be [and should be in some cases] performed at any time and at any place except when not recommended. Indeed, it is a worship that draws the believer closer to Allah and closer to perfection.
Intention for voluntary fasting

As opposed to Ramadan, the intention does not have to be made before dawn. The person can intend fasting [and start fasting] after dawn any time [even after noon] given that he did not eat anything.]

Fasting Mondays and Thursdays & Fasting three days of every month(White days):

“Fasting and the Qur’an will intercede for the slave on the Day of Resurrection. Fasting will say: ‘O My Rabb! I prevented him from food and desires, so accept my intercession for him.’ And the Qur’an will say: ‘I prevented him from sleep during the night, so accept my intercession for him. So let us get closer to Allah by fasting Mondays and Thursdays or at least 3 days every month on the 14th,15th and 16th. If we leave something for the pleasure of Allah then we will get MUCH greater in return!


Tips for Memorizing the Qur’an

Allah says in the Holy Qur’an (interpretation of the meaning): “Those who recite the Book of Allah, establish regular prayer, and spend (in charity) out of what We have provided for them, secretly and openly, hope for commerce that will never fail” (Fatir 35:29)

Abdullah ibn Amr ibn Al-As may Allah bless him reported: The Prophet peace be upon him said, "The one who was devoted to the Qur'an will be told on the Day of Resurrection: `Recite and ascend (in ranks) as you used to recite when you were in the world. Your rank will be at the last Ayah you recite.''' [Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi].

This Hadith mentions the merit of those who memorize part or all of the Qur'an. Some scholars, in explaining this Hadith, have mentioned that the number of ranks (levels) in Paradise is equal to the number of ayahs in the Qur’an, and that a believer will rise one rank for each ayah that he or she memorizes.

In another Hadith, Othman ibn Affan may Allah bless him reported that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, "The best amongst you is the one who learns the Qur'an and teaches it.'' [Al-Bukhari].

In what follows we list a few hints regarding memorizing the Qur’an, some of which were presented to us by the knowledgeable Sh. Osama Abdul-Azeem of Al-Azhar University in Cairo, Egypt.



First, make sure to correct your tawbah (repentance to Allah), as sins do not leave any room for the Words of Allah. The Imam Al-Shafie has a famous verse of poetry in which he complained to his scholar about having difficulty in memorizing. His scholar advised him to abandon sins


Have your intention ready, and bear in mind the reward and virtues of this great deed as mentioned in the Hadiths above. Ask Allah sincerely to assist you in accomplishing this.


Dedicate a specific time each day (or every couple of days) for memorizing. This should be a time when you are not busy with other things.


Use the same copy of the Qur’an each time. This is because your mind takes a ‘snapshot’ of the pages.


Start with the surahs that are easiest to you. Many people recommend beginning with the last five juz’s (the 30th, then the 29th, and so on).


Other surahs to begin with are those that you enjoy reciting most of all, and those that you frequently listen to and thus probably already know part of by heart.


The younger you are, the easier it will be. As you grow older, you get busier and your capacity for memorizing decreases. However, it’s never too late in shaa Allah. If you haven’t memorized a lot during your childhood or teens, you can still catch up.


After completing a couple of ayahs, recite them in the next nafl (voluntary prayer) that you pray. Alternatively, practice them with a friend or your spouse.
Finally, it might be a good idea to work in groups, encouraging one another. If you are trying to get your children to memorize, you might want to create a sense of competition among them and then provide some reward to whoever memorizes best. May Allah guide us to all that pleases Him, Ameen.

7 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with The Qur'an!




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“O my Lord, indeed my people have taken thisQur’an as a thing (abandoned)”.”


[Surah 25: 30]

ARE you one of those people who rarely touch the Qur’an? Or do you read daily, but don’t find it is having the impact on you that it should? Whatever the case may be, these are some simple tips that can help you connect with the Qur’an.

1. Before you touch it, check your heart.

The key to really benefiting from the Qur’an is to check your heart first, before you even touch Allah’s Book. Ask yourself, honestly, why you are reading it. Is it to just get some information and to let it drift away from you later? Remember that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was described by his wife as a “walking Qur’an”: in other words, he didn’t just read and recite the Qur’an, he lived it.

2. Do your Wudu (ablution).

Doing your Wudu is good physical and mental preparation to remind you that you’re not reading just another book. You are about to interact with God, so being clean should be a priority when communicating with Him.


3. Read at least 5 minutes everyday.

Too often, we think we should read Qur’an for at least one whole hour. If you aren’t in the habit of reading regularly, this is too much. Start off with just five minutes daily. If you took care of step one, Insha Allah (God willing), you will notice that those five minutes will become 10, then half an hour, then an hour, and maybe even more!

4. Make sure you understand what you’ve read.

Five minutes of reading the Qur’an in Arabic is good, but you need to understand what you’re reading. Make sure you have a good translation of the Qur’an in the language you understand best. Always try to read the translation of what you’ve read that day.


5. Remember, the Qur’an is more interactive than a CD.

In an age of “interactive” CD-Roms and computer programs, a number of people think books are passive and boring. But the Qur’an is not like that. Remember that when you read the Qur’an, you are interacting with Allah. He is talking to you, so pay attention.

6. Don’t just read; listen too.

There are now many audio cassettes and CDs of the Qur’an, a number of them with translations as well. This is great to put on your walkman or your car’s CD or stereo as you drive to and from work. Use this in addition to your daily Qur’an reading, not as a replacement for it.


7. Make Dua (supplication).

Ask Allah to guide you when you read the Qur’an. Your aim is to sincerely, for the love of Allah, interact with Him by reading, understanding and applying His blessed words. Making Dua to Allah for help and guidance will be your best tool for doing this.

Istikhara Prayer


Praise be to Allaah.

Istikhaarah prayer is a Sunnah which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) prescribed for anyone who wants to do an action but is hesitant about it. Discussion of Istikhaarah prayer covers eight points:

1- Definition

2- Ruling

3- The wisdom behind prescribing it

4- Reasons for it

5- When Istikhaarah should be started

6- Consulting people before praying istikhaarah

7- What should be recited in istikhaarah

8- When should the du’aa’ be recited?

1 – Definition

Istikhaarah in Arabic means seeking guidance to make a decision concerning something. It is said in Arabic Istakhir Allaaha yakhir laka (Seek guidance from Allaah and He will guide you (to the right decision)). In sharee’ah terminology, Istikhaarah means seeking guidance (to the right decision), i.e., seeking guidance as to what Allaah knows is the best and most appropriate choice, by means of prayer or the du’aa’ narrated concerning Istikhaarah.

2 – Ruling

The scholars are unanimously agreed that Istikhaarah is Sunnah. The evidence that it is prescribed is the hadeeth narrated by al-Bukhaari from Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said:

“The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach his companions to make istikhaarah in all matters, just as he used to teach them soorahs from the Qur’aan. He said: ‘If any one of you is deliberating about a decision he has to make, then let him pray two rak’ahs of non-obligatory prayer, then say: Allaahumma inni astakheeruka bi ‘ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika wa as’aluka min fadlika, fa innaka taqdiru wa laa aqdir, wa ta’lamu wa laa a’lam, wa anta ‘allaam al-ghuyoob. Allaahumma fa in kunta ta’lamu haadha’l-amra (then the matter should be mentioned by name) khayran li fi ‘aajil amri wa aajilihi (or: fi deeni wa ma’aashi wa ‘aaqibati amri) faqdurhu li wa yassirhu li thumma baarik li fihi. Allaahumma wa in kunta ta’lamu annahu sharrun li fi deeni wa ma’aashi wa ‘aaqibati amri (or: fi ‘aajili amri wa aajilihi) fasrifni ‘anhu [wasrafhu ‘anni] waqdur li al-khayr haythu kaana thumma radini bihi (O Allaah, I seek Your guidance [in making a choice] by virtue of Your knowledge, and I seek ability by virtue of Your power, and I ask You of Your great bounty. You have power, I have none. And You know, I know not. You are the Knower of hidden things. O Allaah, if in Your knowledge, this matter (then it should be mentioned by name) is good for me both in this world and in the Hereafter (or: in my religion, my livelihood and my affairs), then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and bless it for me. And if in Your knowledge it is bad for me and for my religion, my livelihood and my affairs (or: for me both in this world and the next), then turn me away from it, [and turn it away from me], and ordain for me the good wherever it may be and make me pleased with it).”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari in several places in his Saheeh (1166).

3 – The wisdom behind prescribing it:

The reason why Istikhaarah is prescribed is that it is submission to the command of Allaah and a practical demonstration that one has no power and no strength of one’s own. It means turning to Allaah and seeking to combine the goodness of this world and of the Hereafter. In order to achieve that, one has to knock at the door of the King, Allaah, may He be glorified, and there is nothing more beneficial in this regard than salaah (prayer) and du’aa’ (supplication), because they involve venerating Allaah, praising Him and expressing one’s need for Him. Then after praying istikhaarah one should do that which one feels is best.

4 – Reasons for it:

In what circumstances should one pray istikhaarah? The four madhhabs are agreed that istikhaarah is prescribed in cases where a person does not know the right decision to make. In matters where it is known whether a thing is good or bad, such as acts of worship, doing good deeds, sins or evil actions, there is no need to pray istikhaarah in these cases. But if a person wants to find out the right time to do something, such as whether to do Hajj this year, because there is the possibility of encountering an enemy or some tribulation, or whether to go with a certain person or not, then he may pray istikhaarah with regard to such decisions. But there is no room for Istikhaarah when it comes to things that are obligatory, haraam or makrooh. Rather Istikhaarah has to do with things that are recommended or permissible. Istikhaarah is not ordinarily required with regard to things that are recommended, rather it should be done in cases where there is a conflict, i.e., when a person has a choice of two things and must decide which one to start with or which one not to do. With regard to permissible things, he may pray Istikhaarah as a regular matter.

5 – When should he start praying Istikhaarah?

The person who wants to pray Istikhaarah should have an open mind, and not have decided on a specific course of action. The phrase “If any one of you is deliberating” indicates that Istikhaarah should be prayed when one starts to think of the matter, when through the blessing of prayer and du’aa’ what is good will become clear to him, in contrast to when the idea has taken root and his resolve to do it is firm, in which case his inclination will sway him, and there is the fear that wisdom may not prevail because he is inclined to do that which he has already decided to do. It may be that which is meant by deliberation here is resolve, because a passing thought does not matter. And a person should not pray istikhaarah except when he has decided to do something but does not have a strong inclination towards it. Otherwise, if a person were to pray Istikhaarah for every thought that crosses his mind, he would never stop and he would waste all his time doing that.

6 – Consulting others before praying istikhaarah

Al-Nawawi said: It is mustahabb, before praying istikhaarah, to consult someone whom you knows is sincere, caring and has experience, and who is trustworthy with regard to his religious commitment and knowledge. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“and consult them in the affairs” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:159]

7 – What is to be recited in Salaat al-Istikhaarah

There are three opinions as to what should be recited in Salaat al-Istikhaarah:

(a) The Hanafis, Maalikis and Shaafa’is said that it is mustahabb, after reciting al-Faatihah, to recite Qul yaa ayyuha’l-kaafiroon in the first rak’ah and Qul huwa Allaahu ahad in the second. Al-Nawawi said, explaining the reason for that: It is appropriate to recite these in prayer, to show sincerity and expressing your leaving your affairs to Allaah. They said that it is also permissible to add other verses from Qur’aan where the context refers to the idea of making a choice or decision.

(b) Some of the Salaf said that in praying istikhaarah it is good to add, after reciting al-Faatihah, the following verses in the first rak’ah:

“And your Lord creates whatsoever He wills and chooses, no choice have they (in any matter). Glorified is Allaah, and exalted above all that they associate (as partners with Him).

And your Lord knows what their breasts conceal, and what they reveal.

And He is Allaah; Laa ilaaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), all praises and thanks be to Him (both) in the first (i.e. in this world) and in the last (i.e. in the Hereafter). And for Him is the Decision, and to Him shall you (all) be returned”

[al-Qasas 28:68 – interpretation of the meaning]

And the following verse in the second rak’ah:

“It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allaah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allaah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error”

[al-Ahzaab 33:36 – interpretation of the meaning]

(c) The Hanbalis and some of the fuqaha’ did not say that any particular verses are to be recited when praying Istikhaarah.

8 – When one should pray Istikhaarah

The Hanafis, Maalikis, Shaafa’is and Hanbalis stated that the du’aa’ should be recited immediately after the prayer. This is in accordance with what was stated in the hadeeth narrated from the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). See al-Mawsoo’ah al-Fiqhiyyah, part 3, p. 241.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said in al-Fataawa al-Kubra: Part 2, p. 265 Question concerning Du’aa’ al-Istikhaarah: should this du’aa’ be recited during salaah (prayer) or after saying the salaam? The answer is that it is permissible to recite the du’aa’ of istikhaarah before or after the salaam, whether you are praying salaat al-istikhaarah or another prayer. Reciting du’aa’ before the salaam is preferable, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to recite a lot of du’aa’ before the salaam, and the worshipper before saying the salaam still in a state of prayer, so it is better to recite the du’aa’ then.

And Allaah knows best

Islam Q&A
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The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

“The likeness of two people, one who remembers his Lord and one who does not, is that of the living and the dead.”

[Sahîh al-Bukhârî (6407) and Sahîh Muslim (779)]

Thursday, April 21, 2011

12 Foods of Rasulullah (SAW)


12 Foods of Rasulullah (SAW)

Barley: Good in fever, while use in a soup form.

Dates: Rasulullah (SAW) said that a house without dates has no food. It should also be eaten at the time of childbirth.

Figs: It is a fruit from paradise and a cure for piles.

Grapes: Rasulullah (SAW) was very fond of grapes – it purifies the blood, provides vigor and health, strengthens the kidneys and clears the bowels.

Honey: Considered the best remedy for diarrhea when mixed in hot water. It is the food of foods, drink of drinks and drug of drugs. It is used for creating appetite, strengthening the stomach, eliminating phlegm; as a meat preservative, hair conditioner, eye soother and mouthwash. It is extremely beneficial in the morning in warm water.

Melon: Rasulullah (SAW) said: ‘None of your women who are pregnant and eat of water melon will fail to produce off spring that is good in countenance and good in character… ‘

Milk: Rasulullah (SAW) said that milk wipes away heat from the heart just as the finger wipes away sweat from the brow. It strengthens the back, improved the brain, renews vision and drives away forgetfulness.

Mushroom: Rasulullah (SAW) said that mushroom is a good cure for the eyes; it also serves as a form of birth control and arrests paralysis.

Olive Oil: Excellent treatment for skin and hair, delays old age, and treats inflammation of the stomach.

Pomegranate: Rasulullah (SAW) said it cleanses you of Shaytaan and evil aspirations for 40 days.

Vinegar: A food Rasulullah (SAW) used to eat with olive oil. ([That’s now a fashion in elite Italian Restaurants)

Water: Rasulullah (SAW) said the best drink in this world is water; when you are thirsty drink it by sips and not gulps, gulping produces sickness of the liver.

PROPHET'S LINEAGE


HOLY KAABAHazrat Ibrahim Khalilullah(A.S.) is accredited for raising the foundation of Holy Kaa'ba - the first house made for mankind at Mecca. And remember Abraham and Isma'il raised the foundations of the House (With this prayer): "Our Lord! Accept (this service) from us: For Thou art the All-Hearing, the All-knowing. Holy Qur'an (2:127)

Hazrat Ibrahim Khalilullah(A.S.) and Hazrat Ismail Zabiullah(A.S.) constructed the house which has been a place of prayer for all times. There is a spot (Maqam-e-Ibrahim) near the Kaa'ba where Hazrat Ibrahim(A.S.) stood while erecting the Holy house and where he offered his prayers. Hazrat Ibrahim(A.S.) further prayed:

"Our Lord! make of us Muslims, bowing to Thy (Will), and of our progeny a people Muslim, bowing to Thy (will); and show us our place for the celebration of (due) rites; and turn unto us (in Mercy); for Thou art the Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.Holy Qur'an (2:128)

The above mentioned verse throws light on the fact that there had always been "true muslims" in his progeny. Hazrat Ibrahim(A.S.) further prayed:

"Our Lord! send amongst them a Messenger of their own, who shall rehearse Thy Signs to them and instruct them in scripture and wisdom, and sanctify them: For Thou art the Exalted in Might, the Wise." Holy Qur'an (2:129)

After four thousand years, God granted Hazrat Ibrahim's prayer and raised our Holy Prophet Muhammed(S.A.W.) from amongst them, as a answer to his prayer. The same thing has been quoted in the Holy Qur'an as follows:

It is He Who has sent amongst the Unlettered a messenger from among themselves, to rehearse to them His Signs, to sanctify them, and to instruct them in Scripture and Wisdom, although they had been, before, in manifest error;Holy Qur'an (62:2)

In the lineage of our Prophet Muhammed(S.A.W.) all are "true muslims". Hence from Adam(A.S.) to our Holy Prophet Muhammed(S.A.W.) all are "true muslims".

Allah did choose Adam and Noah, the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran above all people, Offspring, one of the other: And Allah heareth and knoweth all things. Holy Qur'an (3:33-34)

Adam
Sheth
Enos
Cainan
Mahalaleed
Jared
Enoch / Idris
Methuselah
Lamech
Noah / Nuh
Shem
Arhhazed
Salih / Saleb
Eber
Pelag
Rem
Serag
Nahor
Tarukh
Abraham / Ibrahim
Ishmael / IsmailBrothersIsaac / Ishaq
Sabat Jacob / Israil / Yaqub
Yashab Lavi
Ba'rab Qamat
Nakor Imran
Adnan Moses / Musa
Madh
Nazar Imran
Is not in lineage of Moses/Musa
Nasar Mary/Maryam
Virgin mother of Jesus Christ
Elias / Iliyas Jesus Christ / Isa
Kanana
Nafar
Maleeh
Fahar
Ghalib
Looi
Kaab
Murra
Kalab
Qosai
Abde Munaf
Hashim
Abdul Muttalib
AbdullahBrothersAbu-Taleb
Muhammad(S.A.W.)
The Last Apostle of God
Ali son of Abu-Taleb
Fathima(S.A.)
The Lady of Light
MarriedAli(A.S.)
The First Holy Imam
Hussain(A.S.)
The Third Holy Imam
BrothersHasan(A.S.)
The Second Holy Imam
Zainulabiden(A.S.)
The Fourth Holy Imam
Al-Baquir(A.S.)
The Fifth Holy Imam
Al-Jaffer(A.S.)
The Sixth Holy Imam
Al-Kazim(A.S.)
The Seventh Holy Imam
Al-Reza(A.S.)
The Eight Holy Imam
Al-Taqi(A.S.)
The Ninth Holy Imam
Al-Naqi(A.S.)
The Tenth Holy Imam
Al-Askari(A.S.)
The Eleventh Holy Imam
Al-Mahdi(A.S.)
Last, Alive & Awaited

Dua- Weapon of the Believer



Everybody makes Dua even an atheist! It’s in human nature so therefore a proof of existence of Allah!

Meaning of Dua

  • Form of worship. Means to call out. We make dua to ask for benefit or prevent evil of this world and the hereafter.

Dua affirms 3 types of tawheed.

  • Allah’s Lordship
  • Allah’s names and attributes
  • Right to be worshiped

Types of Dua

  • Dua al mas’ala (ask) e.g. Grant me …
  • Dua al Ibaadah (worship) e.g. La Ilaaha Illallah

We Must do both!

Blessings in Dua

  • The noblest act in the sight of Allah; best Ibaadah is Dua!
  • Is a command of Allah, therefore we are obeying him
  • Allah comes close to the one making the Dua, he loves and cares for us when we make Dua, and it’s also a sign of Allah’s generosity.
  • It’s a sign of ones humbleness and humility (arrogance is a major sin in Islam) Dua repels Allah’s anger. We get angry if we keep asking someone for something however Allah gets angry if we stop asking him. The more you ask, the more you get.
  • The more you give thanks the more Allah gives you.
  • Dua saves you from the fire of Hell.
  • The only thing that can change “Qadr” (Fate) is Dua. Every single Dua is responded by in this world, or some evil is removed from him.
  • Easiest act of worship- can be made in heart.

Pre conditions of dua

  • Have to have hope that it will be accepted. Expect the best from Allah. Out of desperate situation when you go to your parents you are sure they will help you, similarly you should expect the best from Allah (SWA)
  • Sincerity (even responded to Iblis, cause there was ikhlaas)
  • Must be persistence, not impatient. Never give up your Dua! Can ask for an immediate response but be patient.
  • Eat and live halaal (It is a spiritual law for your dua to be listened to)

Etiquettes

  • Praise Allah and use Allah’s names, send salaam to Prophet (SAW) then you make Dua. (Best name- Allah, Al Hayy, Al Qayuum)
  • Raise your hands up to Allah, palms with your hands and together, to your chest level. For an extreme case raise them up higher and separate hands with armpits showing.
  • When someone raises his hands to Allah, Allah feels shy to let those hands come back without giving him what he asks. For normal dhikr or a small Dua you can just raise your forefinger as you do in Salaah.
  • It is against the Sunna to raise your hands to make Dua during the Friday Khutba.
  • Face towards the Kiblah and make Dua.
  • Make wudoo and then make Dua (Optional)
  • Have humility and be soft. Allah does not like arrogance. Seek sympathy from Allah, not from the creation. (Complain only to him) – Very difficult to do.
  • Dua very quietly, secretly – sign of Imaan that Allah can hear your Dua, sign of respect and means of achieving humbleness and sincerity.
  • Allows you to concentrate, and shows closeness with Allah (you get lost in your thoughts with Allah. You are with yourself and with Allah),
  • Allows you to make Dua for longer cause you don’t get tired talking softly, causes less distraction to people to around you.
  • Hide your good deeds as much as possible or people become envy with you and your relationship with Allah. We do not donate publicly and we do not make Dua publicly.
  • Recognize your sins, recognize that we have not fulfilled our rights to Allah and yet we are asking Allah for something because there is no one to ask but Allah so seek for forgiveness as well while making Dua.
  • Determination- “Forgive me if you wish” NO! YOU NEED HIM “Please DO forgive ME!!” but it is permissible to say for example “grant me this job if it is good for me”.
  • Make Istikhaara and seek for guidance when deciding. SubhanAllah!
  • Start making Dua for yourself and then others. (initiates sincerity)
  • Make your Dua broad for all the Muslims e.g. (grant me shifaa and shifaa to all the sick muslims.) When you seek forgiveness for all the believing men and women a good deed is written for each believing men and women!
  • Say “Ameen” not Aaaaaameeen– means respond to the prayer; it’s like making another Dua.
  • Make Dua frequently at all times, whether you need something or not. If you remember him at all times then when the time comes your Dua will be accepted.
  • Make Dua for all matters, small or big. Ask for more than you need for he is all generous.

Acts that we should not do:

  • Do not make Dua into poetry.
  • Do not only ask for this dunya, INCLUDE YOUR AAKHIRAAH. Iblis only asked for life in the dunya – give me life.
  • Do not improperly use the names and attributes of Allah.
  • Do not make Dua against yourself and family – do not curse them, it may be responded. Don’t curse your enemies, instead Dua for their guidance.
  • Do not ask for death.
  • Do not experiment with Dua; (make it just to see if it gets accepted.)
  • Make Dua for yourself. Don’t think cause you are a bad person your Dua will not be accepted and therefore rely on others. Even Iblis’s Dua was accepted.
  • Do not cry in public to make your Dua – you are showing off your deeds.

Bidah! – After Salaah the imam makes Dua and everybody says Ameen. There is no evidence of this done in the Quran and Sunna, therefore stay away. Dua should be done quietly and they should be personal for ikhlaas purposes. If making a Dua together must also keep it short and to the point or the group will loose khushoor. Do the Salaah together and make a short a Dua and the rest everyone can make on their own with khushoor.

Recommended timings for Dua

  • His mercy that certain time he has made more blessed. This increases the person’s enthusiasm for making more Dua and gives him hope.

  • Last third of the night!
  • During the Azaan.
  • When you are in Sajadah. You can make Dua in any language.
  • At the end of Salaah.
  • One hour on Friday. Before sunset?
  • After performing wudu. – Bear witness and make Dua to enter the doors of Jannah!
  • Before drinking the Zamzam water.
  • Laylatul Qadr – ask for forgiveness.
  • BEST DUA- DUA OF ARAFA! People at Hajj stand altogether tired and dirty form all around the globe and the angles bear witness and Allah says to forgive them all and grant them what they wish! Subhan Allah!
  • When it is raining – rain is the mercy of Allah.
  • After reciting the Quran – Dua for their families be forgiven.
  • Dua for a Muslim in his absence. – You get that benefit as well.
  • The person that remembers Allah at all times your Dua is responded.

Conditions – Dua has more of a chance

  • Person in severe circumstances. Why? – give you an experience of true ikhlaas.
  • When other people have taken his right away. Allah cannot stand injustice!
  • Traveller. – Person is cut off from family – Allah’s mercy!
  • Before Iftaar – Shows ikhlaas. (Concentrate on Dua instead of the food). Dua will not be rejected. Inshallah!
  • Never stop making Dua for your parents even after their death. Parents lead you to Jannah- if they make a Dua for you or against you it will be accepted.
  • Good deeds are wings to raise up your Dua! If you don’t have good deeds what is going to raise your Dua? So increase your charity and Salaah!
  • Fulfill the right of your parents!!!
  • Repent from your previous sins.
  • Forbid evil and encourage good around you.
  • Don’t make conditions or vows with Allah – Makrooh however if you do it, it becomes wajib to fulfill it.

Wisdom behind a Delayed Response

  • The response may not be as how you see it.
  • It is a great trial from Allah. These trials bring you closer to Allah. The more Allah loves you the more he will test you to raise your rank up. Subhan Allah!
  • Out of his infinite love and mercy- There might be bad long term effects to that Dua that we don’t realize. We are narrow minded, we don’t have the same perception but trust in Allah for he knows what is better for his believers. Allah is more merciful to you than your own mother. We do not know the result of our Dua.
  • What a slave of Allah hates is better for him for when he is in museebah he will make more Dua and remember Allah. If he had what he loved he would be too distracted by what he has loved to make more Dua.
  • When his Dua is not responded, every person will stop and think about their relationship with Allah. It’s a time for contemplating, for self judgement, when a person stops and thinks about his life and what he is doing with it. Allah’s blessing that Allah gives you a chance in this life to stop and think now and improve before it is too late.
  • If every Dua were to be accepted the person would become too arrogant. A person in a trial forms a new relationship with Allah. His love for Allah grows and is afraid for that Dua to be even accepted for after he will have to give up his friendship with Allah.
  • The greatest treasure is the treasure of Imaan. It perfects the person’s Ibaadah. It prolongs your fear and hope in Allah. And it increases your humbleness and patience.
  • Combating the plot of Shaytaan. Shaytaan uses this opportunity to make you go astray.
  • You will not get everything you want, you are not God. Even the Prophet (SAW) all of his Dua were not accepted. 2/3 were accepted. – My nation not be destroyed by a drought. My nation may not perish by drowning. We do not fight amongst ourselves.
  • You are asking Allah what you want but are forgetting what Allah requires of you. We want our duas to be accepted immediately but when time for our salaah comes we become lazy L

Dua and its relationship with Qadr

  • Question: everything is written for me so why should I make Dua? If it’s written it’ll happen.
  • So why do go to work and go for groceries, if you are meant to have it it’ll fall down from the skies and jump up into your mouth.
  • You do not know what is written so you strive by making Dua to obtain the path that is written for you. It has been written for you but it is possible for it not to occur for you did not make dua for it.
  • Make dua “save us from trials and tribulations”.
  • Nothing repels Qadr except for dua. How? Allah SWT made a condition with Qadr, if we make dua it will happen and if we don’t make dua it won’t happen.

    • Allah is not everywhere physically; we are not walking through Allah. Allah is above us and he is everywhere in his knowledge.

    • Reciting Ayat-ul-Kursi after every fard, nothing stops them from entering Jannah except Death.